“Overthinking leads to hesitation and stress, making life more complicated than it needs to be. But often, people brush it off, allowing it to spiral into constant self-doubt, missed chances, and strained relationships,” says Dr. Sylvia Mercer, Ph.D. in neuroscience.
Eventually, overthinking leaves you feeling overwhelmed, trapped, and as if you’re always falling behind—in your relationships, career, personal growth, self-care, and even at home. It affects every part of your life.
Many people then seek expert advice on mindfulness, decision-making, and confidence, but the harsh truth is…
“Even some behavioral therapists don’t actually know how to deal with overthinking.”
Dr. Mercer affirms that this statement comes from her own experience. She spent over 25 years working with some of the sharpest experts in the field.
The neuroscientist has met many top behavioral therapists known for their discoveries.
However, when it came to solving overthinking, even these leading experts struggled to find a lasting solution.
“I want every person to know that:
If you get attached too quickly…
If your mood depends on how others respond to you…
If you notice the slightest changes in others’ behavior…
If you overanalyze every text you receive…
It’s not your fault. It’s how your mind has learned to protect you,” explains Dr. Sylvia Mercer.
“Here’s why journaling, meditation, and willpower no longer work.”
“When overthinking takes over, it impacts every aspect of your life,” says Dr. Mercer.
When overthinking sets in, here’s what happens:
- You overanalyze every decision you need to make, leading to decision paralysis;
- You replay conversations in your head, worrying that you said the wrong thing;
- You keep worrying about what others think of you, making you anxious all the time;
- You doubt yourself so much that you miss out on opportunities;
- You try to relax, but your mind keeps racing.
But that’s not all.
Overthinking affects your brain, making it harder to focus on what actually matters.
To cope with all the negative thoughts, your brain starts to crave quick distractions.
But these distractions only give temporary relief and keep you stuck in the same overthinking cycle.
Experts have their take on ‘overthinking’.
Instead of exploring the root causes, many just point to overthinking and tell you to ‘stop worrying so much and make a decision’ and ‘just stop overanalyzing everything.’
“But here’s the issue…
Following advice like this never works.
In fact, it can leave you even more stuck and defeated.
It only adds more frustration, confusion, and self-doubt,” explains Dr. Mercer.
Besides following the advice, people literally try everything:
❌ Journaling, hoping for clarity, but ending up analyzing every detail even more.
❌ Meditating, but instead of relaxing, spending the whole session overanalyzing whether you’re ‘doing it right.’
❌ Watching one self-help video after another, waiting for a miracle that never comes.
“As nothing seems to work, people ask me in desperation, ‘What can I do then?’. To answer this question, I had to investigate overthinking much deeper,” explains Dr. Mercer.
Connection between overthinking and dopamine
Over the past couple of decades, research has shown that overthinking rewires the brain’s neural pathways, affecting decision-making and problem-solving abilities while increasing stress and self-doubt, and reducing confidence.
And here’s where it gets interesting.
Overthinking doesn’t just stem from being indecisive or anxious. It’s deeply tied to how dopamine functions in the brain.
If dopamine is unbalanced, your brain constantly craves instant relief, pulling you toward distractions like scrolling through social media, binge-watching, or snacking.
This constant chase for quick dopamine hits disrupts your brain’s natural reward system.
As a result, it creates a never-ending loop where…
Whenever you feel stressed or caught in the overthinking loop, your brain becomes conditioned to focus on distractions instead of solving real problems.
It keeps cycling through worries and thoughts without addressing the root causes.
“That’s why overthinkers often feel stuck, caught in a loop of distractions and indecision,” explains Dr. Mercer.
The common (in)effective ways to improve your dopamine balance and overcome overthinking
“The connection between overthinking and dopamine intrigued me, so I reached out to a few experts to dive deeper,” continues Dr. Mercer.
After many conversations, the neuroscientist came up with a list of ways to improve dopamine balance:
- Trying mindfulness techniques. They might help at first, but they don’t teach you how to deal with overthinking when you’re in stress.
- Finding healthy distractions. Activities like exercise or hobbies can provide a break, but they don’t fix the real issue of why you’re overthinking.
- Focusing on positive affirmations. They can boost your mood for a while, but they don’t address the root causes of your negative thought patterns.
“It was shocking to find those solutions being ineffective and short-term. But there had to be a fix. And as I later found, there was,” explains Dr. Mercer.
“This ‘Dopamine Detox’ turned out to do wonders”
One day, Dr. Mercer was researching the correlation between overthinking and brain chemistry. She accidentally stumbled on one of the overthinking forums.
There was an active discussion about this new anti-overthinking program.
“It wasn’t a promotion or sales pitch. It was an honest conversation among people struggling with overthinking, indecisiveness, and anxiety.
So, I had no reason to doubt their experiences,” she says.
One after another, people on the forum were raving about this program.
They described it as the most effective tool available for resetting their brain’s reward system and finally breaking free from overthinking.
It was called Mindway.
“I took a closer look at the program. To my surprise, it WAS actually one of the most advanced programs I had come across. Mindway offers a personalized plan to stop overthinking, helps boost confidence, eliminate stress and anxiety, improve relationships—all while discovering new ways to declutter your mind and be happy, present. It identifies your overthinking score and reveals the root causes of it.
It didn’t seem like just another generic approach; it’s a complete system designed to reset your dopamine levels and break free from overthinking.”
“Curious about its potential, I introduced it to a few of my clients.”
“It takes just a few minutes a day to use Mindway. I even started calling it a 5-minute ‘dopamine detox,’” Dr. Mercer smiles.
Within days, Dr. Mercer’s clients started reporting significant changes.
“Their stress, anxiety, and self-doubt are almost gone, confidence is through the roof, and they stopped spiraling into endless loops of overthinking. Thoughts that had been overwhelming them for weeks were finally put to rest.
Over the next few weeks, they became calmer, more productive, and more confident in handling difficult thoughts and decisions.”
Mindway didn’t just help them stop overthinking—it completely reshaped their relationships and the way they approach challenges and stress.
“It was so amazing to see these people break free from overthinking and become calm, confident, focused, and happy in their relationships, career, and life,” shares Dr. Mercer.
But, as Dr. Mercer says herself…
“Don’t take my words for granted, try it yourself.”